Hello everyone, Hope the holidays have brought good tidings. Mine have been bitter sweet, for it's difficult to enjoy this blessed season of celebration when there's so much heartache in the world. The Connecticut tragedy in particular really hit close to home. I don't want to be the person who revives bad memories, but since I cannot make sense of the event, the least I can do is learn something from it. You see, I am a complainer by nature and each Christmas seems to bring plenty of material. This season for example, I hosted a party for about 30 people, took photos for our card and mailed them out, spent myself into oblivion purchasing presents for loved ones and devoted countless hours to wrapping the gifts. Normally I'd grumble about how hectic and demanding the season has been and essentially, would only address the negative aspects of Christmas, but not this year. The tragedy has taught me to focus on the positive, for my li...